Wednesday, March 28, 2018

Oh Dear Smithy!!


The ball tampering allegations have shaken the cricketing world again. Test cricket had been skating on thin ice recently, with poor stadium attendance and viewership. It did not need this issue at this moment. But is there more to it than what meets the eye?

Roll back a few years, to when Smith was not a regular in the Australian side. He was a part-time leg spinner, let alone a captaincy material. He was unlike his predecessors, Steve Waugh, Ponting or even Michael Clarke, who all had been earmarked and groomed for the captaincy role. Smith, pretty much jumped out of nowhere, into the captaincy contention, after scoring bountiful of runs.

So what does it have to do with current allegation? Well, very much. Not only did he have to score runs, but also captain a pathetic Australian team, which most of time, has only Warner and him, to make some match of any test cricket game. Adding to it, is the Cricket Australia’s expectations of their cricket team to nearly win every match to get more or better sponsorship. The immense pressure of doing all the things has taken a toll on his beleaguered body and mind.

Smithy boy has done the right thing in putting up his hand. But in this cruel world, straight trees are cut first. He will be banned for a year and perhaps shunned from any captaincy role in future. It will be tough, but not impossible, for him to make a comeback into this cut-throat world of international cricket.

Perhaps he should have gone the Indian way of doing things, blame it on someone else (Bancroft) and gone ahead to create Don Bradman-ish type of records. Alas, his ‘leadership group’ words will haunt him for the rest of his life!!

Tuesday, March 20, 2018

Alaipayuthe


This post of dedicated to my soulmate Ishwarya and our precious little princess (Aashritha)

“Shakti..” the scream of protagonist, Karthik (Madhavan) in the Tamil super hit movie Alaipayuthe would shred even the strongest of hearts. But it does a little more than that. The movie is a roller-coaster of emotions; displaying the beautiful journey of life and helping us cherry pick our life lessons.

The movie is one of Mani Ratnam’s magic recreated on screen (which has been quite less, off late). It shows different colors of your personality depending on your mood for the day. If you are happy, you will associate yourself more with the first half of the movie, which has the lighter and more colorful moments of life. If you are in introspecting mode, it will take you on slow ride of various things to think about for the day. If you are a bachelor, it gives you a window into the life after marriage. But it reserves the best for married couples, teaching them the beauty of patience and giving up on ego in a relationship.

This post is my take away from one of my favorite regional movies. It will also help me to revisit these life-lessons (in future), in case I lose track of it in this hectic journey of life.

  1. Zero Ego Life – Easier said than done. Especially towards spouse or kids. “Vittu kuduthu poganum ” (Leave your ego and adjust). The Malayalam house owner’s words (in the movie) should keep ringing in our ear, every second of our life.
  2. Keep Trying – Each relationship goes through ups and downs. We just got to keep at it. A ‘sorry’ and a ‘thank you’ does go a long way in happy and healthy relationship. Shakti and Karthik's fights arise out of a lack of these words.
  3.  Work-Life Balance – Though the work pressure of Karthik (Madhavan) and Shakti (Shalini) was not explored much in the movie, spouses should never carry their work or their professional hang-over from office to home. We are a Manager/Architect/Developer/Tester only at office. At home we should be a kid playing with kids and an amazing lover to our best-half.

Life is so fickle and you never know what it throws at you in the next second or minute or day. So relax, be happy and enjoy the ride!!